Boy have I been on hiatus. Boredom and depression have been arm wrestling in my soul and they have reached a tie. I have some new projects in the works. Also, if you live in L.A., come visit me and fellow legendary zinester Kelli Williams, at the upcoming zine fest. here is the information:
Look, there is an awesome interview with Kelli: http://lazinefest.com/ . we've been zine-trading penpals and then flesh and blood friends since 1993 or so.
Here is another housekeeping issue. I will be selling sets of 4 homemade coasters for $15, with the money being donated to a sick and uninsured friend of mine. Postage included. The color schemed will be a surprise (exciting!) but you are guaranteed to love them.
feel bad about my last post, and it seems sneaky and dishonest to just delete
it, so I wanted to write about it instead.I feel bad using that picture of poor Frances Farmer, who was such a
victim of a society that couldn’t stand a wild woman and of the sexist side of
psychiatry, where a women’s rights can be signed away when she’s deemed
incompetent, and a lobotomy is used for treatment.
I also feel bad using Kimye Dawson’s lyrics
from her beautiful song, "hold my hand," about a child in a bad situation who doesn’t
receive any help because the welfare worker doesn’t give a shit.In comparison to either of these situations,
my writing about my experience in a fancy rehab and mental health
facility probably sounded like a “white girl problem,” a term I generally object
to (since it’s a derogatory term, and I know plenty of white girls with some
pretty horrible problems), but in this case, I do think my recollections of this time
of my life were poorly described and and probably sounded petty.I’ve never known how to write about these 3
weeks of my life.
I loved the fact that
they fed me there at the hospital, since that was the main thing I was having a hard time with
at home, eating.But it was also a place
of a lot of institutionalized indifference, and some things were so hard to
consider legitimate practices, like all the electroshock treatment this one
patient I knew received.Also, when I
was having my intake meeting with the psychiatrist assigned to my case, crying
my eyes out, he got excited to find out I’d gone to The Evergreen State College,
since that’s where his son went, and he wanted to chitchat about that like I was there for a social visit. Similarly, when I
shared my worries about my seemingly uncontrollable and risky sexual behavior, he told me not to worry about it, he had this other client who was a lawyer and
slept with literally every man in her office, including 3 in one day, in the
bathroom at the law firm, like the ugliest gossip session ever.This type of
behavior leaves me dumbfounded and disbelieving, but I don’t know how to start writing
about it – nonetheless, it’s not on par with what happened to Frances Farmer,
or the events in the narrative of Dawson’s beautiful song.
thing is that I’ve had so many medically irresponsible things happen to me at
the hands of playing-god doctors and fed up nurses, I couldn’t even begin to
tell all the close-call stories that have happened to me, so I have this backlog of hatred for medical experiences that include sloppy work, and that is something I was trying to voice in describing the downsides of being outpatient hospitalized for my sort of nervous breakdown.
Just to get some of that backlog of hatred out (let me reiterate right now how much I FUCKING HATE sloppy cocky doctors and unfair insurance practices): the most minor careless act that comes to
mind is my doctor accidentally prescribing me 125 milligrams of my blood
pressure medication when oops, it was supposed to be 25 milligrams, and my
blood pressure was so low I felt myself shutting down.This is literally the least fucked up medical
oopsie I can think of off-hand.I’m a girl whose
had open heart surgery with the unfortunate post-op experience of my heart sac
filling up with a quart of blood so that my heart could hardly beat, and a
bunch of doctors like “geez, why doesn’t this girl stop bothering us,” when I was trying to tell these assholes on the daily that something wasn't right, and not
getting help until I was in the ER and my dad almost fought the intake nurses
and security guards to get me seen asap (my wonderful surgeon Dr. Sharo Raissi was the only doctor to help me, immensely, in this situation, even though I was calling him on his cell phone when he was on vacation).I’m a girl who was shot full of morphine one time at the ER and then a
few minutes later the nurse was like “okay, looks like you’re ready to go
home,” and I drove myself home hallucinating all the way.This is the girl whose (former) Beverly Hills
dipshit gynecologist's waiting room was full of beautiful women, and who bitched at
me because I had a hairy pussy.This is
just the tip of the iceberg, and all of these things plus the inexplicably
bizarre experience of spending 3 weeks with fellow humans sharing my suicidal
ideation has often put me in a rage with The Man and also made me feel sorry
for myself and everyone I love, for living in a world that can be full of so many stupid, lazy people, incompetent enough to affect our living and dying just by their pure stupidity.
didn’t express this well in the previous post, and I hope nobody feels that I
don’t appreciate having insurance, and doctors that I have the luxury to hate
and complain to.I could be someone
without insurance, letting my suicidal ideation drive me to actual suicide in a
lonely apartment somewhere.I could be someone from a socioeconomic background didn’t instill me with the knowledge of
personal rights, so that I didn’t know to advocate for myself and my loved ones
when some doctor has his stupid dumb head up his ass.Sorry about the pity party of the last post.
Instead of poor Frances Farmer, here is a pic of me dressed up as a punker for my birthday party, 7 months before I flipped my shit and needed the hospitalization. Look into my wild eyes...