I’ve long had this wish that it’d be possible to live inside
the ground zero of nostalgia. This is
more of a daydream, along the lines of sci-fi and the idea of
teleportation. My more realistic version
of trying to embody the bittersweet peter pan root of nostalgia is to imagine
training myself to adapt my thinking to nostalgia, the way Buddhists train
themselves to be zen or recovering alcoholics train themselves to be
sober. That’s what December is like for
me. I know that Christmas Day is at its
most basic a few hours of exchanging gifts, a few hours of cleaning up
afterwards, a couple hours of appreciating the gifts and then a festive dish
for dinner; that is at least the make-up of my Christmas days. There is no getting around the fact that
Christmas ends. Nonetheless, every
December I plan which Christmas light displays we’re going to drive to and
marvel at and which Christmas movies feel the most special to me and will be
watched a million times all month. When
I’m looking at the beautiful light display on some house, or hearing those
little asshole Peanuts kids finally yell “Merry Christmas, Charlie Brown,”
making everything better, I wish to myself that there’d be some way to make the
sentimentality last forever. But there
isn’t. Also, nostalgia is a regressive
state, and counter-productive to the present and even the future. Still, I can’t help but wishing, just
illogically, regressively wishing, time would freeze in the month of December,
when most offices just let their co-workers fuck around all month, when
neighborhoods are lovely with colored lights and animatronic reindeer, when I can
still hope that the gifts I give are going to transform a life instead of
ending up one more item to find a place for or maybe even to add to someone’s
clutter. I wish I could bring my son and
husband with me into a state of matter comprised of childish abandon, that we could
somehow comprise the delicate very filament of a Christmas light.
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Monday, December 22, 2014
holly jolly gloom
Santa Prayer
Santa hovered close and said,
Santa hovered close and said,
“Why all the flies around your head?
Why all the thumbtacks ‘round your bed?
Your wishlist said you want a pony.”
“I got candy stuck among my hair
They pull it free and pluck me bare
The tacks are so intruders spare
This sparse and lonely thing.
I prayed so hard I split my lip.
Is Snowflake waiting outside for me?
Or, maybe I’ll name her Cinnamon.”
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
I Was a Kid Once
When I was a
kindergartner, I went to a private Christian school in Koreatown, called “Pilgrim.” Strangely, I currently work four block away
from this building of nostalgia and terror.
A little
background: I never had enough to eat in my packed lunches,
but I was too shy to tell my dad. Instead, I became what other kids called a “Beggar.” Nerds candies were sold at the student store,
and as a big handful of Nerds is bound to spill over a little, I picked up the
extras from the ground: I actually roamed the blacktop looking for stray Nerds to eat. I also regularly snuck into
the classroom at recess and lunch, to steal, mostly food, but also some
decorative erasers and such.
Also, for
the most part, my few friends were boys, because I was always like “Look at my
underwear!” all the time, and what boy in their right mind is going to be like “I
want to avoid being friends with the girl who
shows me her underwear.”
To recap, I
was hungry, sneaky and harmlessly pre-promiscuous.
Perhaps this
is besides the point. I’m really here
today to discuss my love of annotating my yearbook.
I liked to
put frowny faces or mean comments next to people who I didn’t like. Sometimes, if it was a picture of a friend or
acquaintance, I’d be all, “I Know Her!”
Also, I was pretty evenly bisexual at the time (being in actuality pre-sexual, but with crushes), so there are a lot of hearts drawn
around boys’ AND girls’ photos.
I’m guessing that some of you share some of my experiences and
preferences from this age, or at least the habit of editorializing.
Without
further ado:
close up
So I leave you with this photo of some little assholes with very much warranted frowny faces drawn next to their photos. And in case you can't quite see, here is a close up of these snobby ne'er do wells:
Let's hope you little terrors have learned a little noblesse oblige.
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